I feel like one mistake people make when getting comfortable with their new identity is to try to force the desired characteristics of said identity onto themselves instead of letting the metamorphosis happen naturally through time. I am guilty of this myself. You should not feel upset or hopeless if you have undesired traits in your life due to your environment, upbringing, and even your own inner-nature. Changes take time. Take care of yourself, guys. You deserve it. <3
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Well said.
If we turn down the volume of the noise from culture, society and upbrining: there's a small inner voice. Listen to that voice. You will "become who you are" meant to be, as Nietzsche said
But effort is still required regardless
Didn't say there wasn't, but don't force it either.
Good point. Me trying to figure out a lot of who I am results in a lot of overthinking and jumping the gun when my mood affects my self concept.
I feel you 100%
If you have undesirable traits, take steps to rectify them. Best of luck.
TheMiamiDeSantos
yeah, good advice, thank you and hails from brazil