I feel like one mistake people make when getting comfortable with their new identity is to try to force the desired characteristics of said identity onto themselves instead of letting the metamorphosis happen naturally through time. I am guilty of this myself. You should not feel upset or hopeless if you have undesired traits in your life due to your environment, upbringing, and even your own inner-nature. Changes take time. Take care of yourself, guys. You deserve it. <3
TheMiamiDeSantos
yeah, good advice, thank you and hails from brazil